Tuesday, July 19, 2005
Creating Feelings
How we feel is a product of this moment's predictable almost certain future. Our feelings are created and shaped by what we put into the space of the future.
Example one - I am going to Hawaii tonight
It is Friday night and everyone at work is leaving to have a good time. You have to stay and finish up your work; however, you are going to Hawaii in three hours. How do you think you would feel? What would your energy level be like?
Example two - I am going to work late tonight
It is Friday night and everyone at work is leaving to have a good time. You have to stay late until midnight and finish up your work. How do you think you would feel at this moment? What would your energy level be like?
Who we are being at this moment is created by a predictable almost certain future of any situation we're in at this moment. We have an experiences or feeling of how a certain situation would go or unveil itself. Therefore, how we feel at this moment is determined by how we look at the future of this current situation. If you said you have found the right person in your life, your predictable almost certain future of this relationship would be a bliss. When you encounter a doubt of this person not being the one, then your predictable almost certain future of this relationship would be a doubtful one. Therefore, your current feelings would also reflect the outlook or future of this relationship.
Consider that you have the ability to create your feelings.